The Truth Revealed...
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Disclaimer:
No hate or defamation implied.
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ᴡᴏᴜʟᴅ ʏᴏᴜ ʟɪᴋᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴄᴏɴᴛɪɴᴜᴇ ᴛᴏ ʀᴇᴀᴅ?
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╭──➭💭)) I just wanna be happier
Am I being too Greedy? ❞
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Hey everyone....I know I said I will be writing about my fan fictions this time but I had something more important to discuss. So let’s just get into it.
So I am sure all of you must’ve noticed that my friendship betrayal blog has been deleted. Today I want to share the reason for that. Kindly know that this is not for spreading hate but to just get some facts straight.
So last year, in October, I suppose, I deleted my friendship betrayal blog. This is because, One of the people mentioned in the blog found out I wrote about them and said that I was defaming them. After this things took a very sour turn and one event led up to another which resulted in me being forced to delete my post. I really would’ve written in detail of what had happened but I don’t want to be accused once more. But I will still summarise it and say that the matter became a bit more serious.
The adults got involved and the accuser’s parent said that I was mentally stressing her child out. To be honest, I have cried and gone through sleepless nights because of them and they have the nerve to blame me for stressing their child out? I understand a parents concern regarding their child and it is natural but I did not appreciate all the false accusations and the way she was victimising herself to show me as the person in the wrong. As we all know, in reality, I was the one who was mentally stressed and became distant while she had a normal life until she read what I wrote and started creating a damn issue out of nothing.
I have grown sick and tired of always proving myself innocent. I am not blaming her for telling her parents or feel bad about it but why is she acting so innocent when she is the one of the reasons why we had a problem in the first place. She is acting as if she had never done anything to hurt my feelings or the one to make me feel worthless when all I did was be a good friend.
They even thought that I wrote “Darkness” On them! And to be honest that was far from the truth. It was about my inner most negative thoughts and how some people actually pulled me out of that dark place which was my own head. They seriously blamed me for writing that about them too even though that was based on my own demons. But I wasn’t going to delete that no matter what. Either way, I still Had to delete the friendship betrayal blog because of their absurd Accusations.
My defence to this invalid accusation was that I had not mentioned any names or didn’t mean to spread any hate. I simply just shared an experience because I wanted my voice to be heard since I was going through a lot back then. My mind was a mess for a 12 year old, I wasn’t even 13 yet, what did you expect for me to do? I was just a kid for heavens sake and they were blaming me for defamation just because I was letting my feeling out, because I wanted to be heard?
I decided to vent my feelings out on my blog because I somehow thought that maybe someone out there would hear my voice. I wasn’t able to talk to my family or anyone about this so I made this decision. I am not the kind of person who would want to spread hate or put someone down deliberately. I wouldn’t be that petty.
Hence, I have reposted the Friendship betrayal blog since I have am not defaming anyone nor am I spreading hate. The link will be down below.
I lost many friends last year, some were the ones that I thought would last forever, but I might’ve overestimated my fate. I am not that lucky. As much as I don’t want to admit it, maybe everyone isn’t kind, maybe I will never have the kind of friendship where my friends would go to extreme lengths to protect me, maybe I will never have the ideal life of the girl that everyone is fond of but I have no other choice but to admit that this is not a fairy tale but reality. My reality. But truth be told I am not the one to lose hope, I will always have hope that one day everything will get into place and I wouldn’t have to worry about anyone or anything.
My school has not opened up yet. I am not sure if I should be happy or upset. Upset because I really want to meet my REAL friends who decided to stick around, though I did meet my Best friend a while ago but meeting her at school would be a different feeling. Happy because I don’t want to face the people that I have left in the past. You can call me a coward but trust me, I am not saying this because I want to run away from my problems, but because I don’t want to any unnecessary drama in my already messed up life.
I hope that if my friends from my past or should I say the people who I have broken ties with read this, you wouldn’t think I am hating on you. Trust me I am not. I might not be on good terms with you but I am not the one to disturb someone’s life. And If you al are reading this, I want to officially say that I forgive you, not because of you but because life is too short and too precious to hold a grudge but just so you know I would never ever be able to trust you again. No matter how hard I tried.
That’s all I had to say...Thanks for hearing me out, I really appreciate it.
Song of the Day:
Link to the song: https://open.spotify.com/track/7F1CiKqrY44kh5cDqwHOnx?si=ce079d4e3be34ecb
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Question of the day:
Has your trust ever been broken by anyone unexpected? Share your story in the comments, I would love to hear you out. Your voice matters. Comment below.
Friendship betrayal blog [REPOST]: https://iramslife.blogspot.com/2021/04/the-one-about-friendship-betrayal-repost.html
See you next time loves. ILY to infinity and remember that I am always there for you.
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I, too have been betrayed by my friend. But until I heard her side of the story, I had no idea how big of a misunderstanding it was and how wrong I was in saying only I suffered while she didn't. She smiled with her other friend but in the end, was as hurt as I was. She sounded exactly like what your ex-friend sounds like. People like them like to hide their emotions. Now we're friends again.
ReplyDeleteWhat I'm saying is, even if you don't wanna be friends with her. Just talk to her, and maybe clear out everything :)
XOXO
T.
I wish I could...but I know how toxic it was to be around the two of them...It became more and more difficult to be myself...Its not like I have never gone back to them or never given them another chances...I always give them chances and I became more and more restless... I decided to give them another chance again but them I found out that they told another one of my friends to stay away from me because I was a pathetic stuck up b*tch...I am glad that you reached out to me but I can't go back to those people. I am much more happier now than before..
DeleteThx for reading <3